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banana moon…or, if it’s not a banana, it certainly looked like one when I stepped out on my balcony Saturday morning before the sun came up.  Why up so early, you might well ask?  Well, we were blessed with a tremendous DROP in temperature this weekend and I was out there in my nightgown reveling in the cool, almost cold breeze!  I almost felt like waltzing around like some chick in a movie, I was so giddy.  My city broke record lows, with nights in the fifties and it has been glorious!

I’ve told you all how much I’ve been suffering with the horrible humidity we’ve been experiencing this summer, so this sudden “cold spell” has been a delightful surprise.  Even though I know that it is just a temporary reprieve, it has revived my spirits and fueled my sense of gratitude.

One of the things I’m grateful for is my neighbor’s (Mr. Manboobs) flowers.  The latest things to bloom have been these gigantic red flowers like this one. big red flower (I’m about as good with flower names as I am with bird names, so for now, it’s just a Big Red flower!) While I’m at it, let me say a word or two about Mr. Manboobs, because he’s the kind of neighbor one is grateful to have.  He bothers no one, just goes about his business and has pride in his property.  He lives behind me, and we’ve never been formally introduced, so most of what I know is what I’ve surmised through observation.  He’s a man in his fifties, I’d guess, who, when he’s out doing errands dresses very properly in slacks and a polo shirt.  He always seems very serious and walks ramrod straight in short, hurried steps.  He sort of reminds me of the white rabbit in Alice in Wonderland.  But, when he’s at home, oh how he loves his flowers!  He hurries from one garden plot to the next, like a little bee, pollinating blooms.   And when he works in the garden, this shy little man wears shorts, white socks and black shoes and no shirt! This is how he earned his nickname because he indeed has quite a set of man boobs on him.  And no, I’m not laughing at him…much.  As a matter of fact, I find him endearing in his own little way.  And I do appreciate all the beautiful things he can grow.

There’s just something about the days with NO HUMIDITY and cool temperatures which magnifies my sense of joy and well-being.  I had lunch with my friend Dee on Friday and after lunch we sat out on a bench in a cemetery and talked non-stop for two hours!  Do you know how cool that is?  A friendship like that, I can’t help but be grateful for.  Dee is a friend I used to work with and whom I’ve known for twenty-six years.  And still, we never run out of things to talk about!  She’s the kind of friend with whom I can exhale, knowing I never have to walk on eggshells or worry about being judged.  We have very different views on some things and yet, instead of that being divisive, it seems to add a richness to our bond.  Time spent with her is like a gift.  And I think (and hope) she feels the same way about me.

Okay, I realize I’ve just written a whole post on how happy and grateful I’ve been for just a few cool days, but it has honestly meant that much to me.  The coming week will probably bring warmer temperatures and the dreaded humidity.  But now, that I’ve had a wee taste of Fall, I think I can hold on.

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Just when I begin to think that I’m turning into a Scroogy old cynic, life turns around and surprises me…

Friday I had just gotten home from lunch with my friend, the Delightful Dee, when I noticed the answering machine blinking.  The message was from a florist delivery service, saying they had tried to deliver flowers but I wasn’t home.  They asked that I call, so I did, and was told they’d be right out.  When I hung up the phone I was rather stunned.  It has been quite a long time since someone has sent me flowers.  I went through my mental Rolodex and could think of several people with that kind of capacity for kindness, but, which one was it?

About thirty minutes later, the delivery woman arrived at my door with this beautiful arrangement.

santaIt was exactly the kind of sophisticated design that appeals to me!    As traitorous as it sounds at this time of year, I’ve never been much of a poinsettia kind of person.  In fact, I find them kind of boring.  But this!  This was lovely and I was touched.  I couldn’t wait to find the card, rip it open and discover who had sent me this lovely gift.  I opened the tiny envelope to find this message:

MERRY CHRISTMAS!
SANTA

So, not only was the giver generous, but also someone who chose to remain anonymous rather than receive the credit!  I just don’t know how to express the feelings this evoked in me.  At this time of year especially I’ve been feeling particularly alone in the world.  And to think that someone actually took the time, the trouble and the expense to show me that I was being remembered, well, it made me tear up, to tell you the truth!  But I’ll tell you this, they couldn’t have done this for anyone who appreciates it more than I do.

So, Santa, if you’re out there reading this, I want you to know – you sure put a little more “Merry” into my Christmas this year. And I want to thank you, with all my heart.


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